Dear T23:

She felt that she could not talk to you for a long time, and now she doesn’t want to talk to you. It sure would be helpful if she did talk to you, if not 1-to-1 then in an office with a marriage or family counselor. Maybe you can look for a marriage counselor first and even see him/ her without your wife so to talk about what to do next.

If things don’t improve, I suppose you’ll need to talk to a mediator or an attorney as well, to figure the practicality of this separation, if it continues.

I hope you post again with your thoughts and updates.

anita