Dear T23:

I re-read your posts on your thread and I see that ever since she told a month and a half ago that she doesn’t love you anymore, she was consistent, she didn’t express any doubt, as in going back and forth with I-don’t-love you and maybe-I-do-love you. It was: I don’t love you anymore, I felt this way for a long time and it is not going to change.

You don’t know why, she didn’t tell you why… I definitely don’t know why. When we don’t know the Why, better attend to the How- how to proceed: getting your own place, establish a co-parenting routine, prepare for a legal separation and divorce (mediator, attorney), and see a counselor on your own to help you emotionally in this difficult time.

And do post here anytime you want to, sharing about the past and the present, as you choose.

anita