Anita,

Last night Ella was wearing ear rings the girlfriend got her for her birthday.  She also stated the girlfriend went with them out of town for Ella’s birthday this past weekend.  This  of course was never told to me.   And I yelled and cried and said I hated his guts etc.  And now I feel like crap.  I feel like I’m playing into his trap.  I’m not acting in the manner I want to act at all.  I feel powerless.

Having any type of discussion about the girlfriend or how much she is around the kids is a waste.  I’m not going in the house and he isn’t going in my apartment or my condo.  The keys are because I have a dog (our dog really) and he helps take her out if i’m out of town, etc.

I need help.

Lindsey