@shelbyville this has been running through my head since I read about your description of your ex on your 3rd time. What if Jay just wants the physical intimacy and then leaves? Or that was what he wanted but given up to find it elsewhere. Like you said you and your ex didn’t get affectionate at first when you rekindled the 3rd time, I used to do the same with my ex but would end up giving in but hortly after we would part ways again. My ex knew he could get me because I loved him.What if your ex just wanted to get laid and you were the easy option. My ex would do the same when we would try again at first I would be reluctant but end up giving in but hortly after we would part ways again. My ex knew he could get me because I loved him, I wanted him so he had a hold over me hence the feeler texts . What if Jay does the same… what if he’s using me. Why are my thoughts so crazy right or is there substance to them ?