Thank you very much, Anita. You are most likely right about him having a list of women to contact but for some reason I thought I was the only person he was talking to. I remember in the beginning when we were talking about being introverted he mentioned that he has something inside of him that makes him want a woman company, time, body etc and whenever he doesn’t have that urge he’s usually at home. That should have been an indicator of whom he was I guess. He also said something about having a constant need for affection.
We’ve never had a phone call before, just texting through WhatsApp messenger. I also think I might have unintentionally led him on to think that casual sex was ok with me. “I have feelings for you but you said you don’t want to be attached to someone like that but I want to spend more time with you”. Was one of the messages I received from him after the confrontation. On the day of our “date” I also told him that I’ll let him know when I’m ready to have sex (I didn’t know what else to say to get it to stop) and that was his excuse as to why he kept asking for sex.
I never thought that my last experience was a sexual assault. Maybe I should just stay away from men if this is how they are going to treat me.
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