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  • #345434
    Candise
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    Sorry for the repetition, and I ended reporting myself by mistake 🙁

    #345430
    Candise
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    Cooper,

    Thanks for your advice. He seem to have given up in contacting me since I haven’t received a message from him in almost two weeks. I might not be able to avoid him completely since we’ll attend the same educational institution in September.

    #345428
    Candise
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    Cooper,

    Thanks for your advice. That guy hasn’t contacted me in almost two weeks which means he probably already gave up. We will be attending the same educational institution in September so I might run into him from time to time.

    #344130
    Candise
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    Thanks again, Anita. I really appreciate your advice but I find it so difficult to believe that a lot of guys would respect me like that. I’ve only ever felt loved and respected once by a guy who lived overseas that I did not even get the chance to meet. That was in my early 20’s and I’ll be approaching late 20’s soon.

    I also have another concern that has to do with my personality but I’ll write about it in a different post soon.

     

    #343058
    Candise
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    Thank you. I look forward to your response.

    #343044
    Candise
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    Thanks again, Valora. In his last message from almost two days ago he said he forgave me for what I said and if I would like to try, we could. I’m not sure what that means but I was planning on not replying to him.

    #343040
    Candise
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    Thank you very much, Anita. You are most likely right about him having a list of women to contact but for some reason I thought I was the only person he was talking to. I remember in the beginning when we were talking about being introverted he mentioned that he has something inside of him that makes him want a woman company, time, body etc and whenever he doesn’t have that urge he’s usually at home. That should have been an indicator of whom he was I guess. He also said something about having a constant need for affection.

    We’ve never had a phone call before, just texting through WhatsApp messenger. I also think I might have unintentionally led him on to think that casual sex was ok with me. “I have feelings for you but you said you don’t want to be attached to someone like that but I want to spend more time with you”. Was one of the messages I received from him after the confrontation. On the day of our “date” I also told him that I’ll let him know when I’m ready to have sex (I didn’t know what else to say to get it to stop) and that was his excuse as to why he kept asking for sex.

    I never thought that my last experience was a sexual assault. Maybe I should just stay away from men if this is how they are going to treat me.

    • This reply was modified 2 months, 3 weeks ago by Candise.
    #342714
    Candise
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    Thank you very much for your response Valora. Sadly this is probably how most men from my country think you’re supposed to get close to a girl. There was a study done that found that a majority of girls were coerced into their first experience.

    I made a post a few years ago about my first and only experience using another email address that I will link here.https://tinybuddha.com/topic/is-he-using-me-or-am-i-just-over-thinking/

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