Dear blkhwkdwn1:

“I was more around because she was single and bored”- no, she liked you, she wanted to help you, she genuinely liked you. You felt it from her, you knew she was genuine with you, this is why you’ve been so attached to her. If she was with you because she was single and bored, no way you would need her so much; all this time you wanted more of that genuine special thing you had with her long ago, and you didn’t get it.

She is now with another guy, so I guess it is “the old her” that you miss.  But there is another woman out there who will be like the old her: a woman who will genuinely like you and want to help you, and the two of you will both help each other.

anita