@adelaide thank you chick. I’m glad I didn’t let my anxiety choke me and ignore the deeper stuff we needed to discuss before we could move forward. It could have gone either way but I had the courage to confront it and resolve it like an adult. I feel so proud of how I’m tackling my anxiety even if it’s a long journey like yourself I have a dose of reality and feel better about things.

Well done chick for reaching out to your ex and caring but putting yourself first too and not getting sucked in. It shows your strength and character and how much love you have to be able to reach out and show you care but still love yourself enough to know you have let go and will move on to better love ahead. I’m also proud of you! This is a huge step.

The same goes for you @shelbyville to be able to not get obsessed with your exes text is a huge step forward. Reaching out theres no harm but having the power and mindset to say it’s over and carry on is a big step. I feel we all are actually moving towards loving ourselves more and having the balance to still Express our care. I would reach out to my ex because with the pandemic I would want him to know I still care for him and his family. For my own sake, I had begged him to block me on everything which he respected at least. Maybe I’ll reach out to a mutual friend. I like to think that as humans it’s time to be extra awarel of what we do for others as it’s times like this you realise who is real and who is not.

Ii think 2020 has been a scary year but look where we are guys..I’m starting a journey on a new love, @adelaide and @shelbyville I really believe you have taken a huge step in self loving and let going. I can’t wait to hear about your happier connections and new found loves xxx