Yes of course year we talked about making more time for just two.if us but life deck for in the way work rasing our son and carering for all 4 parents we had not been arguing or had a conversation of this sort in many years    we had started doing things on our own      I do believe the change in job and going back to uni has had a massive impact    He also has 4 friends that have divorced and moved on with new people last year I guess his prioritise have change where as I’m just the same person I ever was     The last few years I’ve have been dealing with the menopause and back injury I think this has been hard he is used to me being the strong caring oceans I’ve needed a bit of support.    I feel he’s just cut and run     I wanted to talk about it go counselling try and resolve after all the years we spent together I felt it was worth it     But he just told me left and since held me at arms length  hurtful.     I’m so lost and alone locked in our family home with all these memories and with the covid19 lockdown very very isolated