Dear CB:

I would contact your parents in law, both of them, if I was you: you took care of the two of them for  a long time, built relationships with the two. Your (now ex) partner decided that he doesn’t want you in his life (outside of discussing the most practical things), but it is not his parents who decided that they don’t want you in their lives, is it?

So contact them-if contacting them has to be done through your ex partner, then contact him.

I don’t think that  you will be allowed to visit the Covid-19 infected parent who is in the hospital (or that you should, even if you were allowed)- see if you can send him a message somehow, maybe the hospital staff delivers cards to patients, or little gift packages, something you can send to that parent.

anita