Dear CB:

I am sorry that you are losing your ex partner’s mother, whom you loved for so long, and without the possibility of saying goodbye (she is dying from Covid-19).

Your relationship with the this woman’s son= your ex partner= father of your 20 year old- is over. The two of you haven’t been communicating about your relationship for a long, long time, neither one of you willing to communicate at different times.

I suggest that you text or call him only regarding necessary topics, such as the future selling of your house and financial arrangements.

Because you are living with your 20 year old, I suggest that you don’t use your son as a listening ear for your complaints about his father, for your emotions of  “Heartbroken Lost Lonely”; in other words, do your very best to not burden and hurt your son with your pain, for your son’s sake.

Use this thread/ forums to express your emotional pain,  to vent out your feelings: type your feelings away here, anytime.

anita