Dear Alejandra:

“going back to other girls and old habits” is easier than “trying to use this time to work on himself”, and most people choose what is easier, most of the time.

His motivation to add girls to his social media account is not necessarily that he feels happy and is ready for a new love; it may be that his motivation is to distract himself from distress and conflict.

“Sometimes I feel super ridiculous trying to always see the good in people”- better see the real in people, in other people and in ourselves.

You are welcome to continue to vent here. If you prefer that I don’t analyze the content of your venting (as I have done here), please let me know.

anita