Dear Alejandra:

You are welcome. “I myself had things I’ve had to work on to improve myself and become better.. it took months.. years. People tend to choose what is easier. I’ve done it before”- you read like a person who knows what she’s talking about. This kind of work does take months and years. You seeing that you too chose what is easier shows your superior understanding, because doing what is easier is a natural tendency (animals always choose what is easier when given options).

I wouldn’t reach out to him for his birthday, or for any reason, if I was you. But if you do, in a moment of weakness and desperation, no big deal, really, in the big scheme of things, it doesn’t matter that much.

And do keep venting, and since you don’t mind me analyzing, I will continue to do what I enjoy, analyze, that is.

anita