Dear Alejandra:

“I’ve felt paranoid that cheating, lying, and disrespect will follow  me into a new relationship”- these things will not follow you into a new relationship. If a man follows you, wanting a relationship with you, get to know him before you get into any kind of a physically intimate relationship with him.

It  is easy to find out if a person is honest or not when strong emotions are not in the way, which is before an intimate relationship is formed. You  will therefore be able to wisely and actively select a man for your next relationship, instead of passively accept whatever man you superficially like who happens to be interested in you.

I am looking forward to the letter you want to share with me.

anita