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Dear anita,
Good actions:
1. Letting people you care about know that you are thinking of them on their celebratory and mourning occasions, so they can feel you actually like to participate in their life.
2. Saving energy and resources on your own budget to contribute to Earth a little something.
3. Giving time and space time in all sorts of relationships
4. Staying loyal and truthful in all sorts of relationships
5. Being open-minded with choosing to think about, speak of, or react to things you don’t personally agree with.
6. Offering help whenever you are in the might to do so, given if it doesn’t hurt yourself.
7. Listening to others calmly and keenly.
8. Taking responsibility of your own actions and words, and letting others do the same.
Bad Actions:
1. Judging and criticizing people for their likes/dislikes, especially if those preferences are harmless to anyone’s well being.
2. Talking a lot about the things you hate about. Especially spreading hate on things that are not directly harmful to anyone.
3. Believing that the world owes you something, just because you gave away something. (I’ve seen some very close people do this, and I think they are wrong to act like that majority the times.)
4. Making people feel bad about their appearance/identity.
5. Doing unhealthy things that hinder your productivity, affect your physical health, or relationships in a negative way and calling them “self-care”.
6. Always being late to the plans, intentionally/ Making others wait, without giving a concern
7. Lying excessively
Is the format of list correct? Or do you find something missing.
Thank you for your time
Regards,
Javairia