Dear blkhwkdwn1:

It makes sense that you talk when she is alone, and it is nice to be familiar with another person, like you are familiar with her, knowing the nuances in how she sounds, what she says, how her face brightened up when she saw you in the store last, and so forth. Like I wrote to you for months: you perceive her correctly, this is why you got attached  to her to begin with, because what you perceived about her from has been correct: she is a good, sincere, kind person who genuinely likes you.

anita