Dear Felix:

“she’s the same height as me.. her parents might tell her why she get herself a short boy.. whenever I don’t think about relationship stuff, I feel happier.. But I don’t wanna stay single forever”-

– what is stopping you from contacting this  girl is not that she is thinking that you are short, or that her parents are thinking that you are short. What is stopping you is that you are thinking that you are short.

And when you think that, you get scared that she (and her parents) will reject you. When you get scared, you feel unhappy and troubled.

Here is a choice that is not available to you: growing further and becoming taller.

Here are two choices that are available to you:

1. Give up on the idea of having a girlfriend and a wife and accept the life of a single man.

2. Apply courage and act in spite of your fear: it will be very difficult but if you persist, you may find yourself with a girlfriend/ wife, having a good relationship.

anita