Dear Vivian:

“He is perfect.. he  is not perfect”- I am glad that you are open to the idea that he is not perfect.

“the reality that I am now discovering is that love is not constant butterflies or infatuation”- excellent.

“I thought that (like what you see in movies, shows, hear in music) love is always passion and almost being crazy for someone all the time”- but now you know that love is not what is portrayed in the movies.

“when the madness stopped, I got scared because I thought.. love is always passion and almost being crazy for someone all the time.. The anxiety is still there, it was quite bad today but I called him and felt better”:

1. Now that you don’t believe anymore that love is always passion, what is it that caused you fear/ anxiety earlier today?

2. When you called your  boyfriend today, what did you say to him and what did he say back to you that caused you to feel better?

anita