I will definitely do that. To recap, our arguments are about the same thing, inconsistency in lack of effort, time, affection and energy. I give so much of it and he knows this, but I don’t see it from him at all. He says he loves me and cares about me very much but it’s one thing to say it, and one to show it. He doesn’t show me at all that he loves me or cares. I don’t mean for him to buy me a gazillion flowers or anything extreme — but he used to always plan hang outs, call me every single day (even 2-3 times a day) even when he had the most busiest and tiring day, he still wanted to talk to me. He would’t let me sleep without us talking at least for a couple minutes. Our conversations would flow, we would still get to know each other and more. It’s the little things like that, I miss the most.

But back to yesterday’s conversation, after I said my solution and he said his, he said he would call me later that night and we would talk it out since something came up for him (work & family). I agreed and then dropped him off home. Later last night he didn’t end up calling me and when I reached out to him via SnapChat, he said he’d call tomorrow morning (as in today in the morning), and he never did. I reminded him gently that he said he was going to call and he said, “Gimme some time”

Here is how the conversation went on the chat, through SnapChat today:

Him: Goodmorning

Me: Helloooo

Him: Hiiii

Me: what’s up

Him: working 🙂 hbu?

Me: Not much, just chilling

Him: How are u feeling today

Me: I’m doing okay, hbu?

Him: I’m doing okay also.

Me: That’s great to hear, good for you

Him: Do you want me to leave you alone?

Me: You told me to give you some time

Him: What would you like to do

Me: Why are you asking me this? You said to give you some time so I respect that, I’m not sure what you’re thinking

Him: I want us to be happy

I didn’t respond because I’m not sure how to anymore. What do you think of all this?