Dear gamer:

So far, according to the conversations you  posted, he seems to be exceptionally honest, logical, sensible, patient and wise about relationships.

He is saying that he loves you but the relationship with you has been making him miserable for a long while and he doesn’t want to be miserable. He is closing the door on a bad relationship with you and is willing to open the door to a good relationship with you later on.

As is I don’t think that you are able to have a good relationship with him or with anyone because you are argumentative, selfish, impulsive, desperate and impatient. You want what you want right now, you’ll say anything to get it, and you don’t consider the long term.

Ask him what he thinks about No Contact, if he would like that, if he thinks it’s a good idea, and if so, for how long. Just ask, don’t tell him yet again what it is that you want (no break at all). Ask him and let me know what he says.

anita