Dear Lisa:

That will be way better, seeing your brother away from his father. I mentioned earlier that I think that you should not be in a relationship with a guy: I think that it is important that you will not be engaged anytime soon in a sexual relationship. You are too young and with the molestation experience that you suffered (it went beyond the one event as it involved your mother’s dismissal of your account of it), and having had sex as a very young teenager (leading to your abortion), it is just not a good idea. I want you to take time and heal from those experiences I mentioned.

Friendships- yes, sex- no, says I, not for a while!

anita