Hi Tom,

I’m so sorry with what you’re going through. It makes my own heartbreak story (awaiting moderation) like a child’s play compared to yours. I do hear a lot of stories about ex getting back together but this is by far one of the worst. Here’s my take on your situation. Walk away, and save yourself from further risk of heartbreak. Give her a chance (which to me she seems pretty genuine despite y’all arguments) and it may just work out this time or more heartbreak. But take my advice with a grain of salt. Anita is right, she has to work hard to earn your trust back. But I’m curious about what happened that ended her affair with her ex a week before meeting you again.