Hi Felix,

Yes you are on the right track about starting to think that she has her life of her own, whether she may or may not come back from where she is, and many other things. You mentioned you haven’t contacted here yet. Try the ‘Kaizen way’ method I’ve suggested you.

Regarding your height, I have seen a blind person getting married, another with other health conditions, another who has already passed the marriagable age but got married the first time. So many such things do happen and height does not really matter, unless it matters to “your mind”.

Yes I can understand it is difficult to get it out of the mind. But then what would you do if a glass has hot water and you want to make it cool or warm in order to drink it. If it is full, you would pour (let go) some water out and fill (replace) it with cold or normal water. Likewise you need to let go of something that is in your mind and replace it with something else that you like, love to do and enjoy life. Or simply continoulsy replace it with things you like and love to do and the water will overflow and what remains in the glass after a while is cold water. When you do that you will find that you have met the love of your life. I am not saying this for the sake of saying. You yourself can try doing that. Just start. “Beginning is half-done”.

I had posted a video on your other post for you to take a look at. That post is buried somewhere now.

Here I am posting the link once.

You might even get goosebumps after you watch it.