Dear Greed4UrLove:

Reads like she is selfish and self centered when it comes to her kids, like you wrote, “having a rotating door of people for then to get attached to then lose”. Too bad for her kids.

“the dynamic is just different”- that’s a non-explanation, a meaningless something that she told you.

She is getting away with her selfishness with her children because it’s not illegal (and even if it was  illegal, the police is otherwise occupied these days, at least in the US), and it’s not illegal to lie, or to not tell the truth, as she does with you, so she gets away with it.

I don’t know if it was a good relationship (as your title indicates)- was it a good relationship, now that you are looking back at it?

anita