Dear Mango:

Your decision to “just see what happens- if someone is showing effort to get together, then great. If not, then (not)” – reads reasonable to me.

You wrote a sentence that stood out for me: “Even those who have hurt me over and over again, (different story) I still have so much love/ care in my heart for them”- I have a feeling that if you elaborate on this sentence/ tell a bit about that different story, I will have more to say.

anita