Dear Felix:

Regarding your height: I’ve discussed hat with you plenty. I have nothing new to tell you about it. Regarding your fear that you will “stay single forever”- I suggest that you make your life as a single man as interesting and as pleasant as it can be, so that “forever” is not boring and unpleasant.

Look for something in your life that you didn’t yet pay attention to, something interesting- something different from what you are in the habit of focusing on (height, being forever single, what your peers are thinking about you). Look around you with a “beginner’s mind”, new eyes, new ears… find something new to you.

anita