Dear norit:

You are welcome. I feel good having you back here, by the way. Yes, I can follow the logic of you not being afraid to scare him away, or hurt him. I suppose you are getting something out of it: human contact, touch.. and someone valuing you for some purpose. Sort of, better be valued for something than not be valued at all. Do I understand the way it is for you?

I suppose he visits you at your place, stays for an hour or so, and then leaves.. calls you, lets you know when he will visit next time.

anita