Hi JoJo,

“Right Ms. Brandy?” Well, I can’t speak for Anita but I feel that she was simply making the case for why your statement “I invaded his personal privacy” isn’t quite accurate. You were simply minding your own business in your garden that day, and Anita’s statement that “his personal privacy invaded yours eyes and brain” is indeed the more accurate statement. The “take him to court” statement was Anita’s attempt to make a point that if there was any wrongdoing whatsoever in this scenario, it was not your wrongdoing, but I don’t believe for a second that she believes it’s a good idea to actually take him to court.  This is clear from her earlier replies to you on this thread. You stated “I have to get past the guilty feeling” and Anita was trying to help you do this, to help you see the situation differently. This is my understanding.

To now answer your question, yes, telling him what you saw and taking him to court would indeed be the wrong move. You are doing the right thing, JoJo. 🙂

B