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Dear Jessi:
I think that you should bring this up to him, tell him that you are bamboozled (if you are.. I am!) by his worshipping of this woman, by him choosing her as God, or goddess, to be exact. Tell him that you are confused and upset that you are his girlfriend, yet he worship another woman! Tell him that it doesn’t feel good to know your boyfriend thinks another woman is all that… and not you!?! And let me know how he responds.
I don’t know why you are with him, you didn’t describe anything wonderful about your connection with him, nothing about closeness.. maybe there is but you didn’t share anything about it here, only about .. his limerence (unofficial) mental disorder.
anita