Thank you ladies for your input I misunderstood my apologies. This has been  a trying time for me as for everyone. I will move past this. I saw him yesterday swimming I was gardening and we talked when he got out of the pool. Again he was wearing dark navy colored swim shorts…neither his private area nor his hair there showed underneath the material whatsoever. I think he may have realized something or its just that hes not worn them again when Ive seen him. Definitely the color and manufacturer of the beige ones were the culprit and at fault  here.  Thank you both for helping me deal with this. This is a very good forum I am glad I found it. Jo