Im  doing  ok im 25 now and my friend Tim I  talked to u about turned 24.  since the incident when he was drunk hes been  better but is still having troubles with this lockdown just as I am. his embarrassment over me seeing him in the tub when he passed out  drunk has faded. we are still close like brother and sister. maybe sometimes things happen for a reason to make things easier later on. since then last month he got a case of poison ivey that spread pretty bad and I helped him.  in doing so I saw him undressed again and he accepted it this time.  we agreed to it beforehand for his well being. he realized I already knew how he looked like naked and the way he is shaved there so it wasn’t the shame and awkwardness as last time-but still a little awkward.  if u remember the drunken comment he uttered i think i told u in the other posting that he had apologized for that and i forgave him. I don’t know if we will ever fully recover from that incident but we are trying our best. i am glad i helped him when he needed it again. i know u said ur older then me i guess u understand what i mean. hope u are well anita. and how is the other person brandy hope she is ok  to!