Dear Anita:

Thank you for making the time to engage with me. I have had a few normal relationships with women. I think all of them have been except for “A”. Women wants more of me than I am willing to give and then eventually get tired of me and things end poorly. I never feel that strong connection with any one I have dated and I never really commit. The last girlfriend I was with for two years, I cheated on her twice but never told her. She told me that she saw the writing on the wall that I was never going to commit and see where the relationship went. I kept this relationship a secret from “A'” too so that was mentally draining for me. And it was unfair to my ex-gf.

I have been single for two years now and that is why I felt like it was time to finally spend some time with “A” and her bf or whatever he is. She wants more of me and maybe I can either see if there is something there or get her out of my system.