Thanks a lot Peter. “No experience is lost when we take what we learn forward”, I’m sure this line will make me see letting go and moving on in a more wholesome way. I just have one question though, is it possible to reach a place where i feel nothing for my ex-bf? Sometimes i also feel that maybe I’m putting too unrealistic an expectation on me, thinking that i should just never think or miss him or feel even a tad bit of nostalgia. So with my mind telling me that i should detach every emotion from him and my heart not really wanting to let go, I think I get too stuck. Maybe I need a more realistic, middle ground. Do let me know what you think and if you can help me see what that middle ground should be.