Dear Lily:

You are welcome. Good to read that you are feeling better and that you spent quality time with your best friend. Also good to know that (I have noticed it a long time ago), you are more and more engaged in life. Another thing I liked to read in your recent post is that you indeed stuck with meeting K at a park or a cafe, not in his home, and that you were no longer afraid to be yourself, to show yourself more during that meeting.

I am not surprised that the improved communication in that last meeting caused you to wonder if.. you should try again with him. I hope that you will not be moving in that direction, and instead meet new people, or one new person, to start with.

“I really have been hiding myself.. Now I am learning that I am O.K., and maybe I can become more courageous!”- yes, you are okay, and yes, you can be, and you are already more courageous that you used to be!

anita