Hi Anita,

Yes a long distance one presently,

ie I don’t meet him often in person

but I do remain in contact with him over

calls or texts.I would say the frequency

of this  would be a call once a week and

if he is extremely busy it once in 15days

or even a month. I never initiate a call

or message from my end it is always from

his end.We do meet up may be once

for half a day or a day every six months.

The statement I made in regard to not understanding what I feel with him is

that if  you ask me what is that I get

being with him or from this relationship

is that I know understand that this

particular relationship actually will

never be a one that would last long as

he has made it very clear that he

would always choose his family over me

but I am still in the relationship.He never

has said that I mean a lot to him or I am

his world ..but yes he would always say that

i trust and love u a lot don’t break the trust

I have in you..

hope I was able to clarify what I meant

to say…

incase you still feel I am a bit unclear

do let me know….

Amrita