Hi Anita,

I’m starting to wonder how qualified this therapist is.  For him to tell that story and then have him practice forgiveness is crazy.  Even acceptance would be a bit off.

My therapist, who is a psychologist, would probably ask him very professionally why he feels he has anything to do with or should be concerned about any part of my life, especially when I was a teenager and we had no relationship at all.  I think my therapist would be a bit aggressive with this, not nasty aggressive, but want to know where he feels he has a right to judge my past as a young woman.  Who should judge his past?  He’d hold his feet to the fire so to say.

But, I think my daughter wants answers.  Her father died and left so many unanswered questions for her, and I think she will want to pursue this with bf.  And she has every right to.

Katie