Hi Anita,

Thank you, yes it’s been a long time, and a crazy year. Let’s hope reality goes back to normal soon.

It’s a very good point you’ve highlighted in that I already saw how it went. I just didn’t think it was the right time to make it exclusive. I thought that asking her right away would be too much and was probably thinking along the lines of “playing it cool”. Perhaps that wasn’t a wise thing to do.

I only continued the other casual relationship because of the simple fact that I’m still a free agent. It does come back to your previous observation though in that maybe I should not have waited around to ask the one I’m falling for.

Although I did have a motive for waiting. I got her a necklace for Christmas and was hoping to see her over this period so that I could give it to her and then when we were enjoying each others company, ask her for relationship exclusivity.

I still hope this scenario happens. But all I can really do now is withdraw from contacting her unless she contacts me.

Danny.