Dear Mini:

In your original post you wrote: “there is a deep-seated pain which is not going away”- I wonder about that pain in you that is not  going away: what is it?

In your second post, you wrote that you don’t like “to entertain people with problems especially who live in the past and dream of what could be”- I wonder if you grew up with such a person, a mother or a father who lived in the past and dreamed of what could have been, instead of appreciating and enjoying what was in front of them, their own children.

anita