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Suomilainen
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Sorry I forgot to ask something else. Last night in -14 temperature, my furnace stopped working so I’m sitting here in my winter coat waiting for it to be fixed. He knows this and said last night that he wished he was here to keep me warm 😉 Anyways, I haven’t heard any follow up from him this morning to see how I am doing. I know I would be calling him in the same situation. Am I being unreasonable and having too much of a high expectation or being too sensitive to think he should call to see how I am? Many times I have called him in the mornings and wished him a good day and sometimes a call just to say I love him. He hasn’t. The majority of the times that he calls is at night. He’s too busy for a short call I guess. I’ve brought it up to him and he said he would try to become more comfortable calling me during the day. I told him that comment felt strange. We should be at a more comfortable place now for calling during the day. Am I being too needy? It is a long distance relationship and we haven’t met so why is this not happening? I would love it if he would do this. Instead he writes me in a chat and sends me songs from spotify which is great, but nothing like the voice and seeing the person. I feel this is much better. It feels right and normal to me. Your thoughts? Am I being too demanding?