Dear Anita,
Thank you for your reply. I did ask him if we were friends with benefit and he denied it. He said he does not see me that way. I just wonder if he just used me to his advantage to get benefits. At the same time I’m in denial as he is really close with my mum and if he screws things up he would screw his relationship with my mum too.
I don’t understand how someone can be so close yet be like this. If it was just a normal friendship and if he took advantage of the situation I would be fine I guess. But being so close by knowing each other’s family and his mum being friends with my mum, I wonder how can someone do this.
Its like I cannot accept the situation. And also there is no closure in why he stopped talking to me all of a sudden. Just because I questioned him about the other girl? I’m not too sure if that’s the reason and I don’t know how to find.
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