Dear TeaK,

I suppose he said that because he felt he was responsible for my sadness, even though I never “blamed” him, and it’s natural for me to be emotional after separating from someone I had feelings and just had a good time with. He used to initiate a video chat once a month until then by the way.

Yes, I’ve noticed my contradiction :). I think I’ll make it clear about loyalty in a committed relationship, and that’s probably one of the reasons that I never asked him for it.

Could you explain “But also notice that him suggesting infidelity was the line you didn’t want to cross.”?

Thank you for answering that question, it sounds like all the opposite of what he did later, haha!