Dear Anita,

Thank you so much for your reply..

But i feel as if i dint explain you in proper way what i meant by these “bad timing or patterns” or “judging him “…

I meant these more in repetitive “irresponsible and careless behaviour”  and “taking wrong decisions” and depending too much on others for their opinion or support “..and i gave u few examples after observing his problem…

My observation was that, He doesnt take things seriously and acts lazy..take some very poor decisions which made him financially broke and in trouble ( example was consequences of deportation, as he dint even inform the foreign office about his address + if they were nt responding, he was too lazy to go there ask about his visa status, or email them ) and he hires a lawyer for visa issue.. I m still confused what will lawyer do to extending a student visa???

.. According to him.. His situation isn’t changing.and he is always left with no money… Because all goes to rent etc..

My observation is that he is doing nothing to change this apart from complaining..

If i go through same situation financially broke like him abroad i will go crazy become mentally disturbed..

Me helping him financially was one time help from me… He never asked for that but i felt i should be doing and i would even do it for a friend or stranger.. If i see someone i cant help myself…

Are these some real problem?

Because he is otherwise a sweetheart… Always loving caring, sweet… But i m very turned off by his these issues..

Should i be more supportive?? Or should i move on.. Do u think if my future with this “long distance lover”  can be full of mess.

• This reply was modified 3 years, 9 months ago by Peace.