@Jay2023

It’s the difficult moments in life that shape us! No matter how bad things appear right now. Hold onto that hope it will get better. In the future when you’re with the right one or even thriving on your own it will make sense.

Even though I may come across as very blunt. I’m very romantic, I have a giving heart that wants to share all the love I have and receive it back,  just the once. I’ve never really experienced it back. But I still hope and with hard work on myself I think fingers crossed it is finally starting to fall in place.

Although I strongly believe you shouldn’t enter another relationship until you’ve done the work. Just look at your past and present, has no woman ever believed in you? Did you give her a chance? I bet you have, but because of your low self esteem and attraction patterns you’ve overlooked them.

My new boyfriend was there all along. I never saw him in a romantic light, I don’t want to jinx it but I can promise you when you finally have done the work on yourself you’ll want what’s best for your soul – stable healthy connection, the feeling will be all encompassing and beat the euphoria experienced of on/off relationships.  Real love is a slow burn.

A person who sees you, emotionally understands you, who you are attracted to on all levels physically, emotionally, intelligently, spiritually like Danny always says, is an incredible feeling! It does exist. The change has to come from us , within. Our choices.

You can only get and keep better if you do better. Believe in yourself. Don’t let anyone convince you that you are only worthy of breadcrumbs.