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Dear Peace:
I am sorry that you suffered as much as you have so far in life. I too suffered as a child, and when I was your age.. and many years later. Much of my suffering as an adult was not necessary: if I made different choices, I would have prevented a lot of my suffering. I would like you to make choices that will prevent you from suffering even more than you have so far.
You are way more than “a piece of hymen”, way more than “a piece of meat”- don’t ever again let a man treat you like a piece of meat, to use and abuse you for his sexual pleasure. This is not your purpose in life!
The current long-distance man who you are afraid to hurt… let him go. He is not your son- someone you are responsible for, he is not your responsibility, and he is not your solution or salvation. Your responsibility, your solution/ salvation is the exams in front of you, the education you need to complete, the career ahead of you!
anita