Hi Anita. Thanks for thinking of me. I am well thank you. I have been connecting with my son through playing on his XBox with him which has led to conversations away from the XBox. Sometimes he chats about the here and now and sometimes about the past and how he’s felt in certain situations or places. I let him do the talking and I listen and don’t ask questions but say something like, ‘so it sounds like that was hard for you to hear that…’ etc.

On the friendship front I became aware that he wanted more than friendship and despite my actually telling him I’m definitely not interested in a relationship, and taking a step back, he continues to pursue more than friendship which is beginning to feel uncomfortable.

Thanks again for thinking of me.