Dear Kpd,

I started going on and off. I asked for breaks, break ups. I never could get sure into her, nor could I go away from her.

When i breakup with her, I see all the good things, I imagine and visualise good things, I value her and miss her. But when I start talking to her back, o get the stress and bad feelings about the bad part associated with, I get feeling less etc.

So when you’re close, something bothers you and you want to get away, and when you’re away, you miss her and want to get close again.

Can you explain a little about what bothers you when you’re close? What is the bad part, that causes you stress and bad feelings?