Dear lindsey:

It is the easiest thing to do, for a person who “refuses to discuss any wrong doing n his part or apologize”, is to assign all all the wrong doing to someone else, and you are the convenient target. It is a shame that you have to interact with him at all, it being that you have to co-parent with him, sharing custody of your two children. Do your best to understand that his misbehavior is not an indication of who you are, but an an indication of who he is.

anita