Dear Pavel:

It is nice of you, to place these smiley faces in your recent post, and to write to me that I don’t have to feel sorry for you, that bad life experiences make us stronger. I always admired people who care to not pass on their suffering to others.

I wrote to you that I am sorry that you were abused as a child, not because I was not abused, and as such, I have pity for someone who was abused, but because I was abused, and looking back, I can see the horror in my life back then, as a child. Childhood abuse is unfortunately common and it creates a lot of pain way into adulthood.

I am curious, on one hand you wrote that this man in your life is your destiny, but on the other hand, you “need to get rid of people like him”- do you mean that you need to get rid of .. your destiny?

anita