To be honest I am finding it really hard to let go of this situation, everytime he comes back, it gets tougher.

And there is this one common close friend of ours, who is continuously trying since the past one month , to get us back together as friends,

but he doesnt know the reason, because I havent told him , and have asked X to not talk about it to anyone, so anytime this friend asks X  to tell him what has happened, he simply tells him to ask me instead ,  because I am the one not talking.

so , my friend keeps, bugging me regarding the same everyday, but I dont think it will be a great idea to let him know,

so he has this take, “that a guy like X could not have done something so bad that you guys decided to go on break for one month , and all because you dont want to talk to him, and neither tell me the reason, he is literally almost crying and telling me that you have been rude to him in the two hour call on your bday, telling him how better off you are , without him, so I dont know whose fault could this be(which is not what I exactly meant)”

and then he is kind of passive agressive with me , but then I am fine with that,

but the above statement kind of breaks me , to see how things have changed and I dont know what to do , to mellow out 🙁