Dear sossi:

I want to re-read your posts so far in the morning and try to understand you and your situation better. I will be back to your thread in about 14 hours. Maybe you can answer the following before I return: in your recent post, you wrote that your sister said that your relationship with your parents was unhealthy. Did she explain what she meant by it, specifically, perhaps she gave examples?

Also, if I may ask another question: can you give me a couple of examples of you having been a “smoother” at home, as a child?

anita